Remember the one word I repeated a week ago that threw my husband into a tailspin?
It was a simple, "huh? Can you slow down?" type of repeating. He was explaining something at high speed which he had thought out well, but had not yet communicated with me, and he was going too fast for my busy brain to catch up.
But he was sure that I repeated the word to totally mock him.
I explained right then what I meant, apologized if he felt hurt, and explained. But he is convinced and he is angry.
I let it go, hoping it would simmer down. It didn't. It's been a week and a half.
Yesterday, we had our weekly meeting with the pastor (last week was off), and we were asked how things were going. I brought this topic up. Explained what happened, that he thought that, and was understandably upset, and that I explained this what I was thinking... I just hadn't caught up yet...
The pastor tried to discuss it, but he wouldn't. He's convinced that am lying, that he is right, and he is angry.
And now I even told the pastor, so he is more angry. And he is punishing me for it.
It is now a week and a half, and getting worse, not better.
Pray for strength. I'm tired. I'm tired of facing this type of treatment. It's been a tiring week, and I've tried to stay above it and stay peaceful and calm, but now he is even more angry because I told the pastor. And now he has switched from silent anger to revengeful anger and he is trying to hurt me.
I'm tired of it. And I really don't know what to do here.