tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1537301261148220329.post1744880044041066530..comments2023-06-19T07:09:08.536-05:00Comments on In the Middle of Nowhere: CyclesElliehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18228465663336628118noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1537301261148220329.post-47828997204501506942009-05-18T21:51:00.000-05:002009-05-18T21:51:00.000-05:00"Others suggest that I just submit and become "bet..."Others suggest that I just submit and become "better" and he will stop." Please, Ellie, don't listen to them. You know this is not true. This is a lie!!! You know this is a cycle and no matter how perfect you might be, it will not stop. <br />I am so sorry that I was too busy these last two weeks and only now caught up with reading your blog. It is hard to face this. I hope you can with God's help. Praying for you for wisdom.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1537301261148220329.post-58987892796612114722009-05-15T22:55:00.000-05:002009-05-15T22:55:00.000-05:00Hey... I don't know you but I have been following ...Hey... I don't know you but I have been following your blog for a little while. I feel no right to tell you that you should separte from your husband or stay with him. What I do know is what you've already said - that it's not okay, that God is with you, that he sees... <br /><br />When I have been hopeless, the most comforting passages are actually some of the darkest passages... like Lamentations 3. To know that great men of God have been hopeless too is very comforting.Kaciehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06374573594800663980noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1537301261148220329.post-58215841094191846312009-05-15T15:55:00.000-05:002009-05-15T15:55:00.000-05:00Yes, I imagine that it is overwhelming! I pray th...Yes, I imagine that it is overwhelming! I pray that God will somehow let you know quite clearly what to do...but even if you don't know what to do and make a decision that you believe to be correct at the time, God honors that, too, and will help you sort it all out later. I continue to pray.Rebecca Conduff Aguirrehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/00328658355319045462noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1537301261148220329.post-86775230640858100762009-05-15T14:37:00.000-05:002009-05-15T14:37:00.000-05:00Oh Honey,
This is not nothing. Don't let anyone ...Oh Honey,<br /><br />This is not nothing. Don't let anyone tell you that. Nor is this your fault. You should not be treated with disgust by anyone, even less so by your husband. I want to rant and I want to tell you what to do and I want to fly up there and make you do what I want you to do . . . But God is much better at fixing things than I am and He loves you with a real love, not a selfish "love" like that of your husband. <br /><br />I continue to pray for you constantly.<br /><br />Love,<br /><br />BethAlan & Beth McManushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18302406278511895369noreply@blogger.com